q1. How does someone forming an opinion about you affect you?Or...does it not at all..?
q2. Are...you a kind of a person new friends easily judge...or are you not..??
q3. Is smartness for you...an act of being indifferent from emotions??...even when it is the bedrock of some relation you are in.
q4. Do you think you should be open to any friendship you start??...or you believe that friendship should imply opening up slowly in front of your friend??
q5. Are you a kind of a person who judges his friends??
answer these questions ....and help me find out how similar we are!!!
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3 comments:
1.> yes this affects me a lot......n y shudn't it bother ne1 else??
2.>yes, my new frnds do judge me easily.
3.>no. being empathetic is the best thing a human can expect frm other same.
4.>no. you can't judge ne1 frm frst glance...u need somtym.
5.>yes,somtyms. ..to noe hw much can we rely on them .........expectations shud grow slowly.
nice thought bhaiya....i would also include such post in my blog.kinda helps in noin how (un)common u r.
Nopes for all the answers:
1. NO, it doesnt affect me at all. Why should I bother what others think about me.. its their problem, not mine.
2. No, firstly I dont open up too fast. Infact, I am frank by nature, and hence people think they know me, but I dont think they really do.
3. No, What kind of a ques is it? Emotions is not something you can deliberately force yourself not to react to. Reaction come from within, whether or not to show it decides whether you have the guts to accept yourself publicly or not and that I think is attitude ! Smartness is inculcated somewhere within attitude I guess :) Actually both these things are intrinsically in me, so I cant discriminate which one is what :D :D :D
4. No, One should not open to every damn friendship to start, once you know what are the upper limit of the other person with regards to patience and his ability to bear you, only till then you should expand your boundaries, or else everyone will run away from me :D AS it is they do !!
5. Nopes, I dont think I have the right! I give my opinion but I dont judge them !!
1> If the person is very close to me,his opinion about me would definitely affect me or at least it would make me introspect but in all other cases i simply DON'T CARE.
2> yeah..Initial judgement depends on how you present yourself. Be what you are and there judgement won't be wrong.
3> I won't say a straight no to this..Remaining indifferent is WISDOM at times... If emotions are complicating things all the more its better to DO NOTHING.. Time is the best teacher and it would definitely give a solution. Well if you already have a solution you should give it a try with a cool mind..
4> No.I open up slowly to new friendship but at the same time i try to be MYSELF.Its human tendency to be nicer than what he/she originally is... to a any new friend. Friendship lasts longer if this tendency is minimized.
5> No. I don't judge my friends but if i feel a close friend is going wrong i tell him/her so and i expect the same from all my friends.
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